#0 · Feb 06, 2005, 13:31 · ARCHDRAGON

yo how do I get some women, because there isn't a way to get them myself, for some reason they aren't attracted to me as in talking, and i'm a very nice man and don't act perverted around them, they seem to be close-minded I need to figure out how to make them more receptive to me because if they were more receptive then there may not be the same problems. what usually happens is that they look me over and like what they see and are physically attracted very much, then when they give me their number we talk but I always have to call back or else I never hear from them again, and being alone all the time is driving me mad. it's great to have you people to help me a little but I need someone to talk to in person, and that is what  I need from a woman is someone to talk about my problems too, but the only thing they wan't from me is sex sometimes, but then they don't even call back to do that. please post anything you know to make people more open-minded magic or not.

#1 · Feb 06, 2005, 14:00 · Tom

There are two general approaches to the matter you are describing. The first is to try to change the women in your environment. The second is to change yourself to become more attractive to the women in your environment. You are already learning ways to increase your energy through techniques like NEW. The other side to this is to examine yourself for core images and remove them. When you get rid of the things in your energy body which are the most negative, you will bring more positive situations and energies into your life. It does not take long to work, either. A couple of months of daily core image removal should do the job. I've heard that EFT (www.emofree.com or something like that) has a technique to do the same thing.

#2 · Feb 06, 2005, 14:00 · CaCoDeMoN

Sex? I thought that you are 16...

#3 · Feb 06, 2005, 16:15 · Hannah b

Quote the only thing they wan't from me is sex sometimes, but then they don't even call back to do that.
( jeeezz..!even if it had been the best night of my life and you'd pay me I still wouldn't call...!!!.) - I have my rules, and most girls do to.
<lol, I just reread my post..I didn't mean "pay me" "for the sex" ofcourse!!! > :wink:

But...first things first..what do you want the women for? For sex or love..??
In the meantime, whatever the reason is..I'll give you one tip:
Do some more calling. It shows us that you care.I know we were fighting for equality, but I don't know ANY woman, who deeply deeply inside doesn't wish for a man who does most of the dialling..(we're talking about first stages here right??)
This is simple psychology not magic. I know some "magical" tricks (working with your aura) but they are rated X and I don't want the moderators to get a heart attack :shock: yo!

#4 · Feb 06, 2005, 16:47 · ARCHDRAGON

how come alot of you are from poland?

#5 · Feb 06, 2005, 17:27 · Hannah b

:shock: :shock: :shock: I guess it's just one of those nights when we come out in pairs :twisted: Watch out!!!
!! the polish people are comming offering their help!! RUUUNNNNN!!!!....lol

...is 6 a lot?..quite retoric eh? :roll:

#6 · Feb 06, 2005, 18:32 · karnautrahl

I'd love to know that aura tricks Hannah :-) . However not because I want to go pick up women (I'm um..gay LOL) but because I am really curious and I've practised energy work for many years and not come across that side of it. Apart from basic tantra work of course :-) .

#7 · Feb 06, 2005, 21:18 · Leannain

actually to do that sort of thing IMO tbh is very very wrong
ah well but this is my humble opinion don't pay attention to it :)
you can always resort to money :) )

#8 · Feb 06, 2005, 22:36 · Telos

From "The Tao of Steve."

http://www.sonyclassics.com/taoofsteve/above4.html
Quote Rule Number 1 of the Tao of Steve

Eliminate your desires. If you're out with a girl and you're thinking about getting laid, you're finished. A woman can smell an agenda.
It's extra good advice, considering women already operate under the assumption that you have an agenda.

#9 · Feb 06, 2005, 22:40 · ARCHDRAGON

thanks quite wise advice everyone i'll keep it in mind.

#10 · Feb 07, 2005, 03:24 · ARCHDRAGON

and leannain I don't have to resort to money like i'm that pathetic. I don't want just their flesh I wan't more than that, but i'll still take both 8) !!!!!

#11 · Feb 07, 2005, 03:32 · Leannain

your a role model for all the young boys growing up :D

#12 · Feb 07, 2005, 11:55 · Tom

I was serious about the benefits of removing core images. The process of removing negativity isn't just about preventing problems with negs. It is also about attracting more positive situations, energies, people, and so on.

#13 · Feb 07, 2005, 14:10 · ARCHDRAGON

so what you're saying tom is that if I think i'm a pimp  i will be one.  thats great :D

#14 · Feb 07, 2005, 14:56 · Frank

Hello:

There is a little magic involved in attracting women, it's called Romance.

Yours,
Frank

#15 · Feb 07, 2005, 16:20 · ARCHDRAGON

this stuff is kinda hard to get, but with time i'll get it,
just a mountain on the path to paradise with time you eventually you climb the mountain and see the whole picture.

#16 · Feb 07, 2005, 17:13 · VesAn

But ARCHDRAGON, I thought you said in another thread that you have sex twice a day?  If that's true, then it does not seem as if you'd need any kind of help, magic or otherwise, with the ladies!

#17 · Feb 07, 2005, 23:56 · ARCHDRAGON

if I may correct you vesan my goal for is for a long time relationship, if I want sex I can go and get it easy especially since I live in las vegas. but that is not the goal

#18 · Feb 08, 2005, 12:49 · Nay

Quote from: ARCHDRAGON if I may correct you vesan my goal for is for a long time relationship, if I want sex I can go and get it easy especially since I live in las vegas. but that is not the goal
and can get quite expensive. :)

His name escapes me now, but a while back we had a guy whom kept talking about this very subject.  I wish I could remember his nic, because I'd hook you two up and you could talk about ways of getting women, until the cows came home. :P

Nay

#19 · Feb 08, 2005, 15:10 · karnautrahl

There is a tool for every task. Magic is a tool for some tasks but not for this task Archdragon.

Long term relationships can only come from a meeting of two spirits who love each other.

NO WAY, BUT NO WAY can you use magic to "make" that happen.  There is only one way that magic could be of any help. That is the kind that is used to increase your luck and your potential chances of meeting your soul mate.  This is not about coercing magically the individual to turn up either. This is about affecting your own path and your own chances of coming across this person and recognising them.

It is down to you and only you-without magic to then make the step of recognizing that person.

What I said about enhancing your luck and your potential chances? You can make a bigger difference by exploring your world more in this regard. Whether it's personals, singles clubs, bars/clubs, travel, outdoor adventure.....the list goes on-I guess you get the idea.
I did use the net, to arrange to meet people then I went out and met them.

Does that seem a bit conventional rather than magicking up my life partner? :-) . Just a thought, and yes I do practice a form of magic in my daily life.

#20 · Feb 08, 2005, 15:26 · Telos

Magic is a tool?

I thought what makes magic magic is that you're not using tools!
Quote Long term relationships can only come from a meeting of two spirits who love each other.
That IS magic.

Isn't it?

#21 · Feb 13, 2005, 01:46 · ARCHDRAGON

what about having multiple wives?, can you really love two or more people in that way at the same time?

#22 · Feb 13, 2005, 16:17 · Tyciol

If you need to use magic just to get a woman, you probably shouldn't be.

#23 · Feb 20, 2005, 12:56 · RTCovenant

I don't think you have to use "magic" to get ladies.

Then again I would not know.

But if I were you I would just google it, I already found a few quick links for ya.

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/

http://www.doclove.com/

http://www.fastseduction.com/

I have no clue if these sites are phonies or anythings, just sites that I found with a quick search. Let me know what you think of them.

#24 · Feb 21, 2005, 00:13 · Tyciol

I gag when I think of finding through love through seduction... I mean I'm fine for getting some booty with seduction when I'm horny, but when I'm feeling lovey dovey (usually involving watching anime or talking to nice girls during the day) I just want to find mutual honest love...

#25 · Feb 23, 2005, 12:00 · ARCHDRAGON

thanks for your words guys I really appreciate it

#26 · Feb 24, 2005, 12:23 · mike001

Quote from: ARCHDRAGON thanks for your words guys I really appreciate it
ARCH buddy, i have a subscription to an awesome guy name dave. i am going to show you 1out of 1,000,000,000,000,000 mailing i got. these are questions/comments/ect.. and followed by a quick solution to the problem or the question.
here is one of them.. oh and i wear this stuff is JUUUUST like magick i swear i swear!! it is basically, NOT BEING A WUSS to a girl. suck as for example being cocky and funny and you learn so much, it is amazing!!
here is one, not a very good one but i picked this one because it is the shortest to read:

***QUESTION***

Dear Dave,

First off, props to you on the book. The book is really
about how to take control of your life and get what
you want from it. That's awesome. I dated this really
gorgeous chick that was in med school. I did the whole
cocky and funny routine. Works like magic. Here's
an example: "I love you, V." Me laughing ... I love
me too. That's when I had to bail on her. She even
bought me some pimp Versace gear.

I am stuck in a difficult situation. Due to the way
I look, dress, and talk, girls assume that I am a
player. I am very,very inexperienced however. I have
had a few times where I am about to seal the deal,
and some girl will ask me, "How many girls have you
been with ?" or "You are a player aren't you ?" I
have never sealed the deal and if I tell them this
they don't believe me and some will just get mad and
leave. I am not sure what I should say in this situation.
I think some of your book is based on being able to
kiss properly such as the kiss test or the c+f comment,
"I don't even know if you kiss well. " I do not even
know how to kiss properly. I can be cocky and funny
and can attract girls but then I don't know how to
be cocky and funny and bring up that I have never
done anything. Please help me resolve this because
armed with my determination and my improving skills.

V-Man

>>>MY COMMENTS:

You're too much.

She even bought you "some pimp Versace gear"?

Nice!

OK, you say that you've read my book, but you must
have missed page 62. I explain exactly how to deal
with this kind of situation (questions you don't want
to answer).

Here, let me get creative for you...

She asks: "Are you a player?"

You answer: "Are you trying to hide the fact that
YOU are?"

One key in situations like this is to NEVER give a
woman a direct answer.

Use your Cocky & Funny skills to come up with 5 good
answers, and use them.

Maybe say: "Yes, I play sports... what do you like?"

As you can see, I like to turn questions and accusations
around and guess that they're trying to hide the fact
that what they're asking about is something wrong
with THEM.

Just don't answer directly... and most women will
give up.

If you get defensive and say "Oh, no no no... I'm
not a Player at all..." most women won't believe
you anyway - even if you're NOT a player.

#27 · Feb 24, 2005, 13:29 · Nay

Hehehe..  So, who did you kiss? :D

#28 · Feb 24, 2005, 13:30 · mike001

i am not gay but every opinion/comment counts. i have some gay friends that is why i dont freak and go nuts like most dudes go about doing.. so your in the clear with me ol' buddy:)
anyway did that post above i posted make any sence anyone? i have about 1000 of them and some are VERY damn interesting and i swear it is like magick with some of the tricks this guy teaches to attract women, it is f*cking amazing!

#29 · Feb 24, 2005, 16:35 · Leannain

relationships give too much troubles.
you lose more than you gain,you invest too much,gain too litle and lose it all
but hey if you like the experience go for it :D

#30 · Feb 25, 2005, 12:21 · mike001

Quote from: MajorTom Well, let`s just say my friends were more enthusiastic with it than I was...but I may have some vague left-over memories .. :shock: :roll:

Anyways...one of the reasons I`m posting this...is to point out that usually difficulties with the opposite sex lies in the assumption that they are so different than us. Besides the obvious differences, both girls and guys are all the same...

I think besides the falling in love part of course..it`s important to demystify the whole courting part a bit...you`ll feel more comfortable..more like yourself..and it avoids a whole lot of other difficulties..
very true i guess.
well take care bud.

oh Leannain, not a good way of looking at it, lol but in another view it is a good way, hehehe

#31 · Mar 29, 2005, 23:51 · fuji257

>> . . . what I need from a woman is someone to talk about my problems . . . <<

>> . . . but then they don't even call back . . . <

Here's yer sign. :wink:

#32 · Apr 05, 2005, 14:58 · gal_about_town

Quote from: ARCHDRAGON what  I need from a woman is someone to talk about my problems too
Depends if you want a girlfriend or an agony aunt. I went out with a fella who didn't stop talking about his "issues" and how awful his life had been/was. I am quite a cheerful person, but he seriously did my head in. If your problems are that bad get a counselor, and when you are out with a girl just relax, be yourself and enjoy yourself. Smelling nice helps too.

Oh and isn't influencing somebody using magic immoral? :?

#33 · Apr 08, 2005, 01:15 · AstralSailor

Quote from: gal_about_town
Quote from: ARCHDRAGON what  I need from a woman is someone to talk about my problems too
Oh and isn't influencing somebody using magic immoral? :?
Can you influence someone using magic :? ?

#34 · Apr 08, 2005, 03:10 · Frank

Women are great, they are such fun to be with. The only guys I ever met that had a problem getting a date were guys who didn't like women. They were guys who liked to play really Macho. Ha ha, what a laugh. That's high school tosh. Or the guys that felt they had a need to hang around other guys who were perceived as macho, LOL.

Myself, by age 12, I could ride a horse like me and the animal were one. Plus, I learnt how to dance. I had no problem. Women love to move in unison. It's a sensual thing, they like to feel close to their man.

Yours,
Frank

#35 · Apr 08, 2005, 10:54 · SylvrFlwr

Quote from: ARCHDRAGON but I always have to call back or else I never hear from them again, and being alone all the time is driving me mad..
Women prefer a man who will take control.  It shows he has confidence and is really into her.  Lots of women get into relationships to boost their own ego (sound familar guys?).  Why do they spend a fortune on cute clothes and makeup intead of video games and the like?  Because they want a guy to like what they see and keep coming back for more!  They want a guy who won't just move on to the next girl because she was too busy to call back.  Plus girls often think that not calling back proves they have an interesting, busy life and are thus more desireable to other guys (hint, hint).
Quote from: ARCHDRAGON but the only thing they wan't from me is sex sometimes, but then they don't even call back to do that.
Maybe the sex isn't good?

#36 · Apr 08, 2005, 14:38 · Leannain

Quote
Why do they spend a fortune on cute clothes and makeup intead of video games and the like?
and a fortune on perfume,those high shoes(dont remember the name) make up etc etc?

well IMHO to be the center of attention.

like all the modern talk about women dressing some way to look "sexy" because it makes them feel good,to be honest i don't believe in that.
for me they do it to dunno get rich boyfriends hahaaha J/k

well for example one of my school mates,a brazilian girl,she's about 16 if i'm not mistaken and she dress like "modern" girls wear.tight pants,mini skirts,every day a new set of cloth etc etc and she told me that she wears like that because she wants to get an older boyfriend around 25-30 years old,with car,house and good job.
:lol:
IMO of course
:wink: :wink: